communication

Getting Lost in the Past

Getting Lost in the Past

We like to fantasize that life with a significant other will be like a rom-com. We get a taste of it early in the relationship — what we call the honeymoon phase, the “New Relationship Energy” — and it's incredibly addictive.

But when the downside comes, and we first experience some kind of pain, we get stuck because we haven’t yet developed the skills to bloom the relationship back open into something greater. It seems gravity will always pull us back down.

How to Remain Open and Connected During Conflict

How to Remain Open and Connected During Conflict

On my business card these are some of the services I offer: Learn how to thrive in intense life and work situations instead of collapsing or retreating, and learn how to confidently navigate major life changes of divorce, death, and disability.

Those who want to achieve real-life mastery must train in all the three realms of consciousness, emotions, and body.

I want to talk specifically about the area of emotional reactivity, and the most challenging and rewarding place to practice developing personal mastery is within your intimate relationship.